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A-Wow  

I had to break up with my best friend.

I had to tell my best friend I couldn't be that any more. He poured his heart out to me and told me he wanted all the same things as I do - marriage, a family, and to have those things with his best friend. Then he ripped my heart out and told me he wasn't strong enough to leave his girlfriend and can't understand why I'm not willing to wait and see what the outcome of their relationship will be. He's being cruel and manipulative and telling me I'm a bad person for needing to give this some room to breathe. I just wish I didn't love him so much, and I wish I didn't know he loves me more. He once told me if he had to live the rest of his life without one of us, it would be her. And he told me he'd dreads the idea of getting pregnant, but says how beautiful our children would be. I'm so lost.
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mywholeheart  

About mywholeheart

My son is in need of help quickly. He has 9 days to respond to a summons for divorce. He is the non-biological father of a 3 1/2 year old boy that he's raised from birth. He is on the birth certificate and is the legal father. The mother has issues and is trying to take his son from him. My whole family accepted her into our lives, went through the pregnancy, and absolutely love this little boy with all our hearts. We has been a HUGE part of his life and now he hasn't seen any of us in a month. We have never gone that long without him. She has gone months without him, until now. She has removed him from his daycare and all his friends. We pray every day and every night that God will intervene and bring this little angel back to us. Unfortunately we also have to rely on attorneys. The local pro bono attys can't see my son until it's too late. We are in need of monetary gifts to help with legal fees. We have a very good attorney waiting to help us.  My son has to file a counter petition very soon or he'll lose his son. I pray that someone can please help us. May God richly bless all of you.  Thank you.  www.ilovemyson.info

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positivejoy  

What's in a Valentine's?

A lot of people get chocolates for Valentines and like forest Gump said, you never know what you're going to get.  I've never gotten a box of chocolates; never had a Valentine's Day.  So I guess I'm asking because I'm wondering myself. 

A guy I thought was being flirty at work with me is, i think, probably just playing a game.  Why, I don't know.  I think maybe, he's hiding something.  he couldn't have been very interest, becasue after sending him a Facebook message, he told all our coworkers I "was a stalker".  The women at work are being very nice, so I think they know I am not.  And I'm not--talking on Facebook tto someone i thought was interested in me doesn't constitute stalking.  ( I wouldn't think.)  I've been stalked and stalking isn't annoying someone, or a breach of ettiuette, even.  It's about inducing fear.

 

So I got a box of Valentine's candy from this guy, and it's filled with shame and humiliation.  And you know what?  I'm sending it back.  

 

Happy Valentine's Day.

 

me. 

 

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crazyhotmess  

Feeling Loved

So, I just posted my first blog on Aidspace, and I noticed that I sounded desperate and negative. I told my self this morning to look for the love around me. I live with five children two are my own the other three are my roomie's children. With all the craziness that comes with them I have no time to wallow in my misery. When they are gone, I miss my ex husband (even though he was abusive), I allow myself to feel as if I amount to nothing, I crave drugs and or alcohol. So, today, after my roomie went to work, I embraced the children and had a great time. We played basket ball out side and went window shopping. So I thank God for the love of the children around me. They are a challenge, especially the teenage boys, however, I think that I need them just as much as they need me. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to warm my heart at night or when I am alone? I guess I mean, the sick lonley feeling that I get, does anyone have any suggestions to get over that feeling? Thanks and keep Trukkin.

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Tycomom0423  

About Tycomom0423

I am excited to have found a site like this! I really like helping people and feel that is important to turn to others when you need help. I believe that joy in life can be found by bringing a little more joy to someone elses life. I am only 25 but have had my share fair of struggles and heartbreak; from growing up in foster care, to going to college and earning a BA in Psychology, learning to make it on my own and trying to find my way in this world as a young adult. I have felt the joy of the first love and the earth shattering soul-throbbing pain of losing that love. I have struggled financially and know the stress of just getting by. Its all apart of my journey and my hope is that I can share the lessons I have learned from these experiences. Interests: I love learning and researching, I have a dog, a Shih Tzu named Tyco. I love Comedy, being outdoors, going out to eat, I like cosmetology, science, health, and spirituality. I love reading stuff by Dr. Wayne Dyer and Loiuse Hay...

This describes my view of the world, its by Bertrand Russell, Enjoy!

Three passions have governed my life:
The longings for love, the search for knowledge,
And unbearable pity for the suffering of humankind.

Love brings ecstasy and relieves loneliness.
In the union of love I have seen
In a mystic miniature the prefiguring vision
Of the heavens that saints and poets have imagined.

With equal passion I have sought knowledge.
I have wished to understand the hearts of people.
I have wished to know why the stars shine.

Love and knowledge led upwards to the heavens,
But always pity brought me back to earth;
Cries of pain reverberated in my heart
Of children in famine, of victims tortured
And of old people left helpless.
I long to alleviate the evil, but I cannot,
And I too suffer.

This has been my life; I found it worth living.

 

 

 

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